if you're not meant to be together

What is love? I don't think there's anybody who can define this word precisely and perfectly. It is love and love is supposed to be like that. It exists in many types, young love, mature love, teenager love, secret love, etc. Too, there're quite many attributes of this vague idea we can recall. Altruistic, sacrificial and perhaps selfish.

Love is not expected to be fair. It never is. Fairness is not a horrible feature of life but somehow is of love. Fighting for it never holds a good outcome. It's like fighting for justice, where we have right and wrong which we don't in relationship.

No one is completely right or wrong. We all contribute to our faults unconsciously. A is angry with B because B did something A doesn't like. A doesn't like because it's not what A would do. But B is different from A. Tons of this example take place every single day. It's not a weird thing to have in a relationship, it is when you don't. I call it a circle of of love confusion. =D

In spite of arguably being not even-handed, love should be a little bit more equitable than the lowest band of fairness. You can't expect your other half to treat you the way you want if you don't do it. 

You love her/him for who she/he is and accept her/his weaknesses.

If you can't accept those, either you're not that into her/him or you're chasing perfection.

If you're not meant to be together, you'd be better off without one another.